Saturday, May 19, 2007

Murphy's Law




Right from the time when I was a student, I wanted to have a business of my own. It was supposed to be a gradual process after acquiring certain knowledge and experience. But it happened sooner than expected; the opportunity to have it came in a surprising manner when I lost my job years ago.

When I mention to people that I came into the business world because I failed to secure a job after the last downfall, the reaction is nonplussed.

It’s true. I lost everything. Well, it was actually not much of everything that I had lost as I accumulated no wealth throughout but the pride was. That was back in Year 2001.

You can imagine when you are used to have a “good life” with a “good pay” and a big car and all of the sudden you are left with nothing. At first, to be at the taxi stand or LRT station to commute felt like the whole world was laughing at me. It’s different when you commute using the public transports out of your own choice while you are having your Porsche, or BMW, or CLS-Class, or even Kancil for that matter parked under the shade somewhere at the station or home. And it’s different for not having a mean of a transport of your own when you choose not to have one but in my case it was necessary for me to have one but I could not afford it.

It damaged my pride. The worst feeling is when I had to sit around not having the regular things that I had before to be dealing with.

But it was not too long before I got back on my feet understanding what I had already understood about the reality of life. I had nothing in life before. Then I had the opportunity to have something. And now, that little something was back to nothing. So what’s the big deal? The only thing was, without realizing it, I had allowed the pride in me to build the wall. I should've put it in the pocket, instead.

To make the story short, I was actually hunting around for a job but The Murphy’s Law worked on me at that time. The time when I was employed, plenty of offers from other corporations wanted to fish me out but when the time I desperately needed it, none was available.

I am quite handy with papers and paper works. I may be am not the best person in the world to conceptualize a business plan but the sketch I worked on while I was alone at home later turned out to be something of a value to some quarters. In fact, what I did was just pouring out my frustrations and capitalizing on my imaginations for the escapism purposes. Little did I know someone would take it seriously.

That’s how I get myself into the business circle.






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22 comments:

simah said...

to have felt as if ur world was crumbling coulnt have been very comforting...

fate is a funny thing..but u were great cozu didnt hit rock bottom n u had floated again n fly high up in the sky with the rainbows..

Lollies said...

wow. good for you.

what business is that?

silversarina said...

kadangkala memang keperitan hidup yang dialami akan menjadi penawar di kemudian hari...

memang you merupakan insan yang tabah dan InsyaAllah business yang diusahakan dengan titik-peluh dan pengorbanan diri akan terus berkembang maju...Amin.

IBU said...

You did mention you wanted to have a business of your own, eversince schooling days. And all those while, I guess that vision must have been incubating at the same time brewing within you, just waiting to let off steam. How wise of you to know when opportunity knocks. May you always find success even in traces of failures! All the best alwiz!

Theta said...

Congratulations on bringing yourself on a great footing again!
May your business ideas provide you with a satisfactory means to a lifetime (and afterlife) of happiness!

ayang_mas said...

rezeki anak2...insyaalah akan lebih berkat...usaha uncle xkan sia2..uncle senang ayg tumpang bahagia....(+_+)

Makcik Runner said...

gab, u ni kira accidental businessman lah kan. yr story from riches to rag to riches again can make donald trump looked like a wimp! i hope u dont have his kind of hairdo...puhleeez! keep wearing that serban of yours ok...hehehe

anggerik merah said...

Sir Gab,

it is very interesting story of yours.

May you continue to have a good life.

UglyButAdorable said...

bro gab..i hope one day i have that strength...when i will need it te most...

err..biz aper tu...care to share

Unknown said...

Hi Gab,

I love the way you share here with us. I like your honesty. It must be so painful what you went through, but you survive!

I learned many times, 'Life has a way of being fair in the end'.

Sometimes one go through seemingly impossible time as a preparation for the next stage. Now you are in your next stage you will be that much better, that much happier and that much humanistic and real, than people who did not experience the heartaches. Tq for sharing and good luck in your new venture.

Anonymous said...

"what can go wrong will go wrong at the wrong time and wrong place"
"what can go right will go right at the right time and the right place" it is as simple as it sounds...hmm

jaketbiru said...

the governor with bisness, or bisnessing the gavernor, or bisness governor, or governoring the bisness..
anyway.. which on is it gab??
u want to be a governor (or already has) or u want to be bisnessman (or u already are one)??

enligthen plse..
(smile of confusion)

Anonymous said...

Congratulations Gab, I believe that you've touched the top level of satisfaction in your career.
So, what is next.....:)

Idham said...

:) GaB ....

to have done both - winning and losing and to come out a winner in the end differentiate you from many...best wishes with ur bisness....i was told by people who cares - go and get what u want while u r still relevant to them for once u r no longer relevant, no one cares ....tenguk la apa jadi to our Dr M himself...

idham

ManaL said...

Sir,

Bouncing back but with a higher, much stronger momentum that has propelled u into another level of satisfaction. Now, i am waiting for ur next story...dunno why but that ending is the beginning/link of yet another lotsa stories told by u in some previous entries and so will be ur future entries. U dont mind sharing them kan? Self-help blog gitewww....

Before this u were talking on rubbing shoulder with Agong and buying a horse. Somehow, i sense something bigger is going to happen soon. Tatler is it?

~ GAB ~ said...

SIMAH => Sometimes in life, we have to let it loose and let the fate play its role. May be it sounds negative with the sentence there as if we can expect things to happen without putting any efforts. That’s not true. The effort is a must, any which way possible but the bottom line is always in the hand of the Creator.

I am a hard-trained myself. Suffering is my middle name. No doubt it left me with scratches no matter how strong I am.





LOLLIES => I am in IT business, dealing with all e-Commerce, e-Governance, Web Designing, Web Development, Web Hosting, Graphic Designing and what not.





RINA JORDAN => I quote, “kadangkala memang keperitan hidup yang dialami akan menjadi penawar di kemudian hari...” I am a true believer in that. It has proven me many times over, even to the point that without having those sufferings in our pasts, we could actually find it less interesting on what good things in our present lives.

I pray to God, “You can take anything from me because they are all belongs to you but please let me keep my iman”

Thank you for the wish





IBU => I came across people said that, whatever our wish kept in our hearts are actually serve as a deposit to the cosmic, registered in the list up there. It is a matter of time to be granted when the time has come. And being Muslim, I do believe it is do’a altogether. And it’s only right to put that, any do’a yet to be granted or not granted at all because the Almighty knows better what’s good for us.

I don’t know it was wise of me or not because I am humbled by what’s fated. Sometimes things happen beyond comprehensions, to say the least.





THETA => Thanks. I like your wish for a satisfactory means to happiness in the afterlife. Yeah!!! We are here on earth for so much time only before we are called. May be it sounds rhetoric if I were to say the afterlife is actually the ultimate goal.





AYANG MAS => Benar AYANG. Rezeki anak-anak. The most important thing is, every drop of milk, every grain of rice given to the kids biarlah berkat. Regardless of how big or how small rezeki will be, I try my best to be satisfied and grateful nontheless.





KC => Yeah right KC, accidental that is. Even my whole life is accidental KC. I don’t even know I was meant to be born into the world. And hey, Donald Trump is actually my icon y’know. Apart from him is Lee Iacocca. He’s the raja in motor industry back then started with Ford then Chrysler. Of course I do not fancy any hairpiece. What are you talking about hairpiece when serban will cover my head? Hehehe I keep that serban intact.





ANGGERIK MERAH => Thank you. Sincerely I wish you a good life too.





UBA => InsyaAllah one day you will UBA. I pray for you. Mine in IT industry with MSC Status company and they call me technopreneur. I was having hard time adjusting to the term for a while and slowly accepting it.





RUBY => It was very painful RUBY. I cannot lie just to show that I was strong in facing the harsh reality. I am highly motivated myself but when actual thing needed to be faced, those motivations slowly rot in me. Glad I survived. Without my wife around, it could’ve been worse. No wonder my love towards my wife keep shooting on the mercury for she’d showed me who she really was during the hard time. We may find many good people during good times but better put a question mark when it is otherwise.

Thank God I had gone through it and survived.





LIYAS => Thanks for adding it. Sure it means deeper to the ones who put their minds on it.





NIDE => I am a governor of my own heart NIDE. Hehehehe. And am smiling too….





KOPI O => It’s been a while since last I read your comment. Where’ve you been?

In a way or another, I have touched some levels of it. To be the pinnacle of the thing, I think it is not yet. (I do not mean that I am not grateful) But… in the context of freeing myself to do what I wanna do, yeah, I am there.






IDHAM => I am still far off from the scale of what success is in the standard of business and business people. But I am successful in my own right achieving the first milestone of it, having my own say in my own business venture. Earning RM10 from your own shop is better than earning RM50 working in other people’s shop for I can have a vision to earn RM50 or even more in future from my own shop.

Thanks for your wish.

Love it when you say, go and get while you’re still relevant. Very, very true.





MANAL => To anyone for that matter, we need to bounce back with better momentum. Falling is not an issue here but climbing back is. It’s easy to say when I am out of the hole now but during the time when I was in a hole, I have to admit, it was tough.

Ending is the beginning. Hmmm…. Yeah…. Always start off a new ball game.

Well, did I put it wrongly in rubbing shoulders thing in my previous entry? (that makes the impression of going big time?) Well, I always hope for bigger things to happen as anyone does. But I take one thing at a time.

m i n e r a l . . . said...

there are 2 common mistake we make regarding failure.. 1st : trying too hard to avoid it, 2nd : to allow failure to defeat us...

if we're not willing to risk failure, we are not deserving of success...

some people say : if u can't make a mistake, u can't make anything

~ GAB ~ said...

That's very wise of you TUN. Appreciate your philosophical lots there. Sounds like truth-seeking words of wisdom from a white bearded man in a cave in his frail body, sitting crosslegged high above on the boulder while I was there below bowing after him.

Thank you.

Anonymous said...

Gab,
I'm still here, doing my routine & visit your blog sometimes. You must be busy & `think' seriously lately... with the Law of life here & there. Are you pursuing your study..doing PhD or in the process of spiritual transformation. Sorry, if I'm wrong.

m i n e r a l . . . said...

gab..
hahahah sayalah pendeta andika [tok guru hang tuah]...dari gunung ledang.
moga success bro... :) aminnn.

~ GAB ~ said...

KOPI O => Yeah, extremely busy due to tagging along with an established big boy in the market for Smart School Project thing.

No Sir, I am not in position to be doing my PhD just yet. When it comes the time I will and I wanna make sure the doctorate will be justified by what I can make for the country. And talking about spiritual transformation, it an ongoing thing to me. I realize that, I am nearing death as the tick of time leaving me every second. I wanna do my best on what the earthly demand is and prepare the best for what the demands for the eternal life.

~ GAB ~ said...

TUN => whehehehehe You make me smile.

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